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Men grieve differently from women. Our cultural roles make it difficult for men to look for support, and harder again to accept it. Men are so often silent, solitary mourners who immerse themselves in activity and private, symbolic rituals. They feel profoundly, but often can't express the depth of their... Read More
There are many different kinds of losses we can experience in our lives. Indeed, loss in human beings has its beginnings in the birth process that separates the infant from the comfort and security of the mother's womb into a world where survival is conditional and predicated on individual responsibility.... Read More
Sending a floral tribute is a very appropriate way of expressing sympathy to a family who has experienced the loss of a loved one. Flowers express a feeling of life and beauty and offer much comfort to the family. A floral tribute can either be sent to a funeral service... Read More
Why We Fear Death"Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark." - BaconThere may be a thousand reasons why we fear death, but most of all we fear death because we fear the unknown, and death is an unknown entity to most people. We fear that dying... Read More
No one likes to think about illness and death, when we are well, we feel invincible and there is nothing that can prepare us for the shock and devastation of a terminal diagnosis. The knowledge that we can no longer take our lives or the lives we share with our... Read More
All of us at one time or another have felt grief: perhaps over a lost job, lost love, or the most heartbreaking, the death of someone we loved dearly. Each of us goes about the task of grieving in our own distinct way.When we lose a loved one the grief... Read More
Remembering someone special in a personal way can be healing for everyone concerned, for a eulogy is a deeply personal way of saying goodbye. The key word is life, and you've been given the opportunity to celebrate a loved one's life in the individual way that made your friend unique.... Read More
In my work as a coach and therapist, I have seen many clients dealing with losses of all kinds-loss of loved ones through death and divorce, for instance. These experiences are difficult for everyone.Stages of Recovery from LossThere are some predictable stages that most people pass through after losing something... Read More
Anticipatory grief is the name given to the mix of emotions experienced when we are living in expectation of loss and grieving because of it. Anticipatory Grief is particularly relevant to those who have received a terminal diagnosis and for those who love and care for them.Terminal diagnosis changes the... Read More
I was with my daddy when he died. Excuse me, I was with my daddy when his spirit left his body. I drove him to the emergency room because he was having chest pains. He said that they weren't too bad, and his color was good. He was still walking.In... Read More
What is it about Grief & Loss that upsets us so much? Is it the heavy duty emoting that we have to do to get through our suffering? Is it the fear we have about opening ourselves to all this pain? Because, let's face it, it's hard down there, in... Read More
I opened the dishtowel drawer for about the sixth time, hoping the towels had somehow magically appeared.The brand new towels still weren't there, of course."What did Mom DO with them?" I wondered aloud.I knew they had to be around somewhere because I had given them to her for Christmas only... Read More
When I invited Martha to the gathering at my house, she accepted the invitation cheerfully. Martha was new to the area and so I thought this small potluck I was hosting would be a chance for her to get to know other women in our town. Martha stuck it out... Read More
The question of whether, say, a man should have the right to take away his life granted pain and suffering have overcome him is a very important question today. A different way of putting this question is this: 'Should a man have the right to take away his life if... Read More
Suicide is the one form of death that has quite a stigma attached to it. It brings with it a feeling of shame and betrayal. It is not the same as saying to someone "My father died in a car crash" nor is it the same as saying someone died... Read More
My dearest Grandma, I will never forget you & sorry that I was not there with you when you passed.Grandma...I can't believe The last kiss, The last "goodbye" was yesterday... Your death was a shock, I know that you are gone for now I really just do not believe how.... Read More
During the two years of my husband's terminal illness, death was never far from my mind. We had been told he was dying and even a time in which it was supposed to happen. We had no idea of how it would happen. I was loathe to let him out... Read More
As a small business owner we have to deal with tax law changes, local ordinances, environmental laws, Worker's Compensation, etc. Just when we thought we had everything under control, something terrible happenes. A death in the family. Oh my God you say? What do I do now? Well since I... Read More
If tears are an indication of how special my relationship with my mother was, I cry with pride! I've come to see grief as pain with a purpose. Interestingly enough, as I cared for my mother in my home the last several weeks of her life, much of what I... Read More
"Dad, I tried to wake Nana, I think she's dead." "Grandpa died yesterday." "Oh my God, Daddy's dead." "Uncle Jack died today." "Grandma died last night." "I'm standing with the body of your deceased father-in-law." "Hon, I think we should get a divorce." "I'm sorry,... Read More
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("He" in this text - to mean "He" or "She").We... Read More
1) Don't try to make the grieving person feel better.... Read More
During the two years of my husband's terminal illness, death... Read More
All of us at one time or another have felt... Read More
Anticipatory grief is the name given to the mix of... Read More
Suicide is a nightmare for survivors of loved ones. Death... Read More
If you have ever lost someone dear to you it... Read More
With my father, his brother and their father having had... Read More
What is it about Grief & Loss that upsets us... Read More
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Recently, the magazine I own and edit got a hate... Read More
I've always waited for the perfect moment to be happy:... Read More
My nan was called Margaret and lived until the age... Read More
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The loss of a loved one. It is often difficult... Read More
It's a familiar story, and I have been through it... Read More
During the 28 years I have been interacting with bereaved... Read More
I didn't know a heart could die before it stopped... Read More
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There is so much emphasis on emotional intelligence these days... Read More
Over one hundred years ago, during the Victorian era, death... Read More
My dearest Grandma, I will never forget you & sorry... Read More
The well-known pioneer researcher Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross identified five states... Read More
In 1969, Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross published her famous book; On... Read More
In a town the size of mine - about 16,000... Read More
I got an email recently from someone whose mother died.... Read More
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Justin was a typical ten year old boy. He liked... Read More
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September 11, 2001, marked yet another significant turning point in... Read More
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Few of us care to think about the inevitability of... Read More
There are many different kinds of losses we can experience... Read More
One of the areas where I seem to be placing... Read More
It felt like I had been run over by a... Read More
As a small business owner we have to deal with... Read More
There is only one place where tragedy occurs, and that... Read More
Not long after Arlyn died, my husband and I decided... Read More
Life has always been a journey, a journey of finding... Read More
Never, since man has walked upright, have people all over... Read More
If we were to organize a list of the thorniest... Read More
Over the years, I've heard many people voice their concerns... Read More
Suicide is the one form of death that has quite... Read More
Recently, several suicides have occurred right here in my own... Read More
The Encyclopaedia Britannica (1999 edition) defines empathy as:"The ability to... Read More
Everyday, I look in the mirror to see the face... Read More
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